We spend most of our lives trying to fit in and be like
everyone else; as kids our parents, culture, traditions and foods often
embarrass us. The day you get married should be about embracing these things
that make you unique and set you apart. Cultural and religious traditions offer
a sense of security and continuity and bring richness into any ceremony or
celebration.
When I was a young adult I got to participate in my cousin’s
wedding. I was raised as a reform
Jewish girl on Long Island in an area of Long Island that was not very Jewish;
in fact it was the microcosm of assimilation. I had never been to a modern
orthodox Jewish wedding before and this one night has stayed with me for most
of my adult life. I remember his wedding being infused with so much Jewish
tradition and culture but most of all it was a night filled with celebration
and joy.
In the Jewish religion the groom sees the bride before she
walks down the aisle so he can cover her face with the veil. It is called a “Bedecking”
and this one stands out in my mind as magical. I remember that during the
cocktail hour, which took place prior the wedding ceremony the bride came out
and sat in a special chair on a platform, surrounded by her mother and her
bridal party- guests approached and wished her well and then out of nowhere there
was singing and the groom entered the room, surrounded by all his friends and
close family and they danced him to where the Bride waited- As he approached
the air was electric. He covered
her face everyone sang and danced and as quickly as he was danced into the
space he was escorted out.
Almost 30 years later I can still remember this wedding and
that moment. It was magical and
set the tone for the entire night.
Dear Reader, How are you planning to embrace your roots,
your religion or your culture? I
am fascinated by the traditions of other cultures and religions. I love when my couples decide to
embrace theirs. So please share! I
would love to hear about how you plan to make your day special and unique.
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